Saturday, December 1, 2007

Please visit...


...my hubby's blog. It's been kinda lonely over there at Steps in a Journey, mostly because he doesn't blog much...or at all! However, he got pretty frustrated over something the other day and he decided to use his blog to rant, I mean draw attention to it. So mosey on over to Steps in a Journey, leave a comment, and encourage him to continue blogging! Thanks!

Friday, November 30, 2007

Lost

Update: She came back! We think one of the construction guys put her back in our yard. Please pray she doesn't get out again!

Our family dog, Batgirl is lost! The city of Barling is doing some construction behind our house and they had to remove the back part of our fence. They replaced it with some chain length fence, but Batgirl still managed to get out. The construction guys said they'd seen her all morning, but Shaun just went looking for her and he didn't see her. And they are all scared of her. Not that she'd hurt them...I don't think, anyway. She would if they posed a threat to one of us. I'm so upset. She's been with us ever since she was born...and she was conceived on our honeymoon! Trust me when I say she's one of the family. Please pray that we find her!

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

The Details

Here they are, the gory details of this pregnancy so far. (Hopefully not too gory!)

I usually have a pretty regular cycle that lasts about 25 days. So when 28 days had come and gone I was starting to get a little suspicious. That was almost 2 weeks ago. Since we were broke, I made myself wait until Monday, when Shaun got paid, to buy a test. It was really hard going that whole weekend without knowing. We weren't trying, so I freaked out a little bit at first. Financially, I didn't think we were ready for another one so soon. But I began to realize that God had His hand in this and He brought us through the first pregnancy--with no insurance--and He'll bring us through this one. So Monday rolled around and when we did our grocery shopping, I got a test. I learned my lesson last time with those tests that have the lines that are hard to read sometimes. So we went for the digital. I knew that the best time to test was in the morning so I made myself wait until the next morning. Tuesday morning, November 20 I woke up and took the test. Very quickly and plainly it said Pregnant. It was such a relief to know for sure! I immediately began planning how we were going to tell our families. Since it was right before Thanksgiving, I knew there was an opportunity for some creativity.

For Shaun's parents, we were going to make a shirt for Cayson that said, "I'm going to be a big brother!" and let him wear it to the family get-together. However, our shirt didn't quite make it. So Shaun made a slide show with our Mt. Magazine pics (most of his family hadn't seen them yet) and at the end we put the picture of Cayson that had him announcing that he was going to be a brother. (From my last post.) For my parents, we made them and my brother birthday cards...they all have birthdays in November. We put our family pictures on the front and inside said, "We didn't know what to get you for your birthday, but we think it's the perfect gift. Just one catch...it won't be delivered for another 9 months!" And we taped a small Babyruth candy bar to it. My mom and brother got it, but my dad didn't. It went over his head! Everyone was really excited.

The Symptoms

So far, I've only been experiencing a lot of queasiness. With Cayson, I never threw up, but I was just occasionally queasy. With this one, I'm queasy just about all day. And guess what really sets it off: sweets! Aagh! I can't even drink sweet tea. Right now all I want is Kool-Aid. Also, I am sooooooooo tired! I can't even sort laundry without needing to rest.

As to the sex, I don't have a preference...too much. I'd love to have a girl, but I love boys too. I definitely won't be disappointed if it's a boy. We just don't have a boy name yet. The girl name has been picked out since before Cayson was born. I'll wait to divulge that when we find out.

I haven't been to a doctor yet, we've got to find one up here. Last time, I delivered in Warren. And as much as I LOVE Dr. Wharton, I can't handle the drive again. So if anyone knows of a good doctor in the Fort Smith area, let me know. However, after doing some calculating at Babycenter.com's pregnancy due date calculator, the tentative due date is July 22, which puts me about 5 weeks. So Cayson and this baby will be almost 2 years apart.

Please remember our family in your prayers, especially our new little blessing. We're very excited, even though I know it's going to be a tough road ahead. Everyone keeps telling me to be afraid of this baby since Cayson was such a good baby! LOL. Thanks, everyone, for the well wishes!

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Exciting News!


Yes, we're having another baby!!!

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Blessings

Our church has been involved in three ministries that culminated today. First of all, our Women on Mission have been collecting coats for people in need. Secondly, we have had several families to participate in Operation Christmas Child. And lastly, our church family has been donating money towards buying people in our community Blessing Baskets. Well, they're actually bags, but I guess basket sounds better. Anyway, this morning, everyone brought their Operation Christmas Child boxes to the church and the children each brought one to the altar and we prayed over them. This afternoon, we invited over 300 people from the Lavaca, Central City, and Barling area to our church to listen to a presentation of the gospel and to receive a bag of groceries, enough for about 2-3 days. Also, we had the coats set up where anybody could grab a coat if they needed one. I'm not sure what the actual numbers were, but we ended up with several families there tonight to receive their "basket". Hopefully we were able to meet not only someones physical hunger, but their spiritual one, as well.

I know these ministries have been blessings to our church family. I was so pleased with the amount of church members we had helping in one way or another tonight.

A Childlike Faith

A 12 year old boy phoned in to a radio station in to Houston and it was so awesome, they posted the conversation on their website. It's short, so take the time to listen.

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Friday, November 9, 2007

Family Pictures Fall 2007, Part 3





There are tons more, but I picked out some of my favorites. And yes, we got ALL the proofs, so there are some really cute ones of Cayson being, well, Cayson!

Family Pictures Fall 2007, Part 2






Family Pictures Fall 2007






Thursday, November 8, 2007

Finally, Fall Festival 2007 Pictures!

My little monkey
2 Pirates and a monkey

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Babysitting

Today I get the joy of finding out what it's like to have a 4 year old and a 14 month old. I'm babysitting a church member's 4 year old son today. So far it's been ok, other than leading Cayson to drag almost all of his toys into the living room! I quickly had to make a 5-toys-in-the-livingroom rule. It should be fun. Cayson's already enjoying having someone to play with. We'll see how it goes!

Monday, November 5, 2007

Baby Sign Language


This is the most amazing thing. Cayson, 14 months, is really starting to pick up signs now. I was a little skeptical at first, but I kept hearing how good it was for both us and the baby. So I started with a couple signs when he was about 8 or 9 months old. "Thank you" and "drink" were the ones we chose, with "more" thrown in there a little later. He did "thank you" once about 2 months ago, but he didn't do it again. This past week, he finally did "more". And kept doing it. Once he figured out that "more" got him what he wanted, he used it for everything! And I was so excited that we were communicating, I had to fight to not give he everything he wanted. He's a bottomless pit! The next day or so, we worked on "drink" with him. And he picked it up right away. Now, he's having a hard time getting the sign correct, but we know that it's "drink". And he says "drink" at the same time. (It actually sounds more like "dink"). Now he's starting to say "more" when he does the sign. Now he's learned the sign for "hungry", which is rubbing his belly. It's so cute! Today he did the sign for "thank you" again. This one is a little more sporadic, I guess because there's nothing physical to associate with it. He's picking up these signs so fast I've got to learn some more so I can keep up.


When someone talked about baby sign language before Cayson was born, I was convinced that it would lead to speech delays, but I've since learned that's not true. It's just like learning to crawl before they walk. It's an "in-between" step. And they eventually end up dropping the signs and just speaking. You can check out this site for more information about baby sign language.

Saturday, November 3, 2007

New pics coming soon!

We took my son to Mt. Magazine to take family pictures today. One of our church members is an aspiring photographer so he offered to take them. We had a great time; I'm not sure how the pics are gonna turn out though, Cayson didn't cooperate very much! He was fascinated by the leaves on the ground. And he didn't want to be held at all. We'll see. We took some by Cove Lake first. There was a really big rock in that area that we climbed on. Also, we took pics from the hangliding point. And we finished up in front of the Lodge. They have this beautiful manmade waterfall in front. Cayson was getting pretty tired and grumpy by then, so we decided to head back into town and get some lunch and head back to Central City. I've really been wanting a "railroad" shot, with the 3 us walking on the railroad tracks, so we did that when we got back into town. By then, Cayson had had a nap and was rarin' to go! However, this time he was enthralled by the rocks. He wanted to throw them everywhere. We'll see how it turns out.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Pondering

I wrote this post this morning at about 6:30ish, but our internet wasn't cooperating. So I typed it up in Word and now I'm copying and pasting it in, now that my techno-hero has woken up and fixed the internet.

Main Entry: pon·der (from Merriam-Webster's Online Dictionary)
Pronunciation: \ˈpän-dər\
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): pon·dered; pon·der·ing
\-d(ə-)riŋ\
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French ponderer, from Latin ponderare to weigh, ponder, from ponder-, pondus weight — more at
pendant
Date: 14th century
transitive verb
1 : to weigh in the mind : appraise <pondered their chances of success>
2 : to think about : reflect on <pondered the events of the day>
intransitive verb
: to think or consider especially quietly, soberly, and deeply
pon·der·er
\-dər-ər\ noun

I wonder if Mary, the mother of Jesus, would have been a blogger, had she lived in our modern times. I wonder this because of the part of the Christmas story when it says she pondered these things in her heart. Maybe she pondered them in her heart because she wanted them to be a secret, between her and God. But maybe, if she had the tools she would have blogged about it. I know that when I ponder some things, I get an urge to blog about it. Like this morning. Cayson woke up at about 5 this morning. Shaun went and got him and placed him in bed with us. As he was cuddling with me, I began to ponder the wonder that is this child that God made for us. I pondered the success of last night. (More about that in a minute.) I pondered the fact that even though he’s becoming a daddy’s boy, he still wants to cuddle with Mommy.
About that, him becoming a daddy’s boy. This started a few days ago, last weekend really. He wants to be with his daddy almost all the time. I love that, really I do. I can’t wait for the day when he’s old enough for his daddy to teach him how to play ball and build things and work on cars and other “manly” things. But it’s been a little hard, especially since it coincides with his weaning. Side note—we made the decision to let him wean himself, instead of forcing him to. It has been such a good decision, for both of us. But now, I’m wishing he had waited a little longer. I miss that time with him. However, I am very glad that he still wants to cuddle with me in the wee hours of the morning.
Now, about last night…we had our annual Family Fall Festival to end our Family Emphasis month at First Southern. We do a Trunk or Treat where we turn our trunks into carnival-type games. Shaun and I decided to do a trunk this year. We made it a pirate theme, even dressing the part! We turned our jeep into a boat, complete with a treasure chest full of candy and a life size cutout of Capt’n Jack Sparrow. We named our boat “The Mini Pearl”. Get it? (On Pirates of the Caribbean, the boat was called the black pearl. Plus, it’s a pun for Minnie Pearl.) I wish I had pictures to show you, but I forgot to bring the camera. Several other people took pictures, so I’ll have to beg for copies. For our game, we used our Nintendo Wii, letting the kids play tennis, bowling, or baseball. It was the big hit of the night. We always had a long line of kids. We even won a Walmart gift card for the most creative Trunk. Cayson dressed up as our little monkey. He was so adorable! And he kept his hood on for most of the night!

As I’ve been posting, I’ve been going through a Bible study called Victoriously Frazzled. Yesterday, I was able to really apply the truths I’ve learned in that study. Normally, getting ready for an event like that I would be totally stressed out. I’m a perfectionist, so if things don’t go the way I think they should I get upset. However, yesterday I was pretty calm. Even when the timeline of building our “boat” didn’t exactly go as planned and we had to leave a few things off (mainly our “cannons”). I give God the full glory for this, as there is no way I could have remained calm and peaceful myself. Also, this week’s study has been on Godly responses and letting our light shine, so to speak. I was able to apply that as well, especially since we had tons of guests. I got to meet several nice families, including one that just moved to Central City. So, all in all, last night was such a huge success…and a lot of fun!

I know this is a long blog post, but as I said, I needed to blog this morning. Something about the quiet of the morning and a steaming cup of coffee makes blogging so much easier.

Here are some updates on Cayson:

He has learned his first sign. We’ve been teaching him baby sign language and he finally is starting to pick it up. I was sitting on the couch Monday and he starting whining about something. He was standing at the gate of the kitchen. I thought at first he wanted his football that he’d thrown over, but that wasn’t it. Finally, he turned around, looked at me, and gave the sign for “more” and pointed at his empty bowl leftover from breakfast a couple hours earlier. He wanted more to eat! I was so excited to see him communicate with me! I gave him a snack and he was very happy that I understood him! He has continued to use “more” every day this week. So far, he uses it for when he wants something to eat and drink, so we’re working on “drink” and “hungry”. We’ve been working on “thank you”. I wish you could see him when he does the sign for “more”. It is so cute, makes my heart melt! And now, he’s trying to say “more” with the sign. It comes out more like a tentative “mo” right now.

He’s trying to feed himself with a spoon. He’s getting so independent. I’ll be feeding him and half-way through he’ll take the spoon and want to finish by himself. And he doesn’t make that big of a mess. He’s also trying a few veggies again, without me hiding them in potatoes!

He’s able to step up and down small steps, but he’ll only attempt when I’m holding his hand!

So far he can say daddy, mama, ball, cat, dog, batgirl (sounds like “aatguhl”, our dog btw), uh oh (his favorite word right now!), and almost drink and more.
Did I mention he’s very independent???

Well, I’ve taken enough of your time, if you’re even still reading by now. Sorry it was so long. I don’t blog enough for it to be too much of a problem, though. Cayson’s up now, so I better go. Have a great day!

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Responder or Reacter?

As I've mentioned before, I've been going through a Bible study by Cindi Wood called Victoriously Frazzled. This week is all about controlling our responses to situations or people. So far it's talked about being a responder instead of a reacter. A reaction is more knee-jerk, saying whatever comes out of your mouth. Responding is stepping back, taking a breath, and saying what God would have you say. I think I'm pretty much a responder. I hate confrontation, so I typically don't say the first thing that comes to mind. A lot of the time I don't say anything, or I'll say, "I'm sorry you feel that way." or something like that. Then I hash it out with Shaun! So I guess that's what I need to work on...being able to respond in a godly way. Especially the older Cayson gets!

Also, during each week, we have a defrazzler to do. The first week was a great one: a spa day! We were supposed to take a day, afternoon, hour, whatever to pamper ourselves. That was awesome. The second one was harder. I had to pick a circumstance to give God control of and document my progress during the week in my journal. This week, I have to practice greeting people in a joyful manner and have a response prepared just in case they ask why I'm so happy. This is so hard for me! I am not very good at talking to people I don't know. I tried it out tonight on the lady that checked me out at Walmart. She seemed a little taken aback. I hope I sounded sincere, because I really was, however this makes me feel a little self-concious. We'll see how it goes this week.

Well, it's time for me to do my daily fitness test on the Wii, so I have to go. Have a great day tomorrow!

The Rules of the Game

As I sat here this morning, eating my Frosted Flakes, I started thinking about last night's Wii session with my dear husband. I could tell he was getting a little confused as to what the rules are for playing games with me are, so I thought I'd make a list, just so he knows in the future.

1. Do not beat me at everything.
2. Do not let me win.
3. If you do beat me, do not do it unmercifully.
4. Do not take it easy on me.

Yeah, I know these contradict themselves. That's how we women are sometimes. Or, at least, how I am. I hate losing. But, I hate it when someone takes it easy on me, or lets me win. I guess I can take losing as long as it's close. I hate being blown away. Especially on the Wii! My thing was bowling. I was really good at it. Unlike my husband. Now these roles are reversed in real life bowling. But on the Wii, I was really, really good. Until last night. My dear hubby beat my high score of 279. I was not happy.

Well, there's my rules. I hope he figures out how to not break them! ;) And now, I must go practice.

Thursday, October 25, 2007

24

Who likes 24??? I do! And the season 7 trailer premiered today at Times Square. Click here to check it out! Looks like this season is going to be great!

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Break Fast

No, this post isn't about my Frosted Flakes, which I love. It's about my fast. The reason I haven't been on the internet for a whole week. I decided this time last week to fast from the internet for a whole week. I had become addicted. I was spending way too much time on here and not enough time with my husband and child and most importantly, God. (Thanks to my husband for making me realize this by the way.) So I gave it up for a whole week. The first day was so hard. I kept thinking about the blogs I was missing, or the facebook comments I wouldn't be able to reply to right away. But I got through it. And, I have to say, this was an incredible week. I spent the time I would have been on the internet praying, studying, cleaning, and playing. We went outside. The weather was awesome so we raised the windows and cut the air off. My favorite day was Tuesday. It rained all day and the sound was so soothing.

I started a new Bible study at church called Victoriously Frazzled. I really didn't think it would apply to me, but boy has it!!! The day after I decided to fast, my daily study was called "Time Management"! Talk about affirmation!

This week has been even more amazing. It's been hard though. God has really been calling me to trust Him. I thought I did trust Him, but I found out that when control is taken away from me, I have a really hard time. You know how when God is trying to teach you something and that "lesson" turns up everywhere? In your daily quiet time, at church in the music, the sermon, the Sunday school lesson, etc. Well, that's happened to me today. I'm really starting to see what it means to truly surrender all to God. I thought I knew, but I didn't. Or maybe I did, but it was all I was capable of at that point in my life and now God wants me to go deeper. I just know I'm in the middle of a huge turning point in my relationship with God and I'm excited and terrified all at the same time.

Anyway, now I'm back. But I'm going to work at limiting my time on the internet. I can't let it dictate my thoughts and actions like it was before. Tonight has been hard since I had tons of emails and blogs and stuff to wade through. And I'm not really going to check it all tonight. I've dealt with the stuff that needed to be dealt with tonight. I figure the rest I can catch up on as I have time.

This was also week 3 in our family emphasis. Tonight was "Meet a Family" night. We were supposed to invite a family over that we haven't had a chance to get to know very well yet. It went very well. We invited our multimedia tech and his wife and 2 kids, one of which is in my Sunday school class. Shaun grilled some BBQ chicken and I fixed some sweet green beans, mashed potatoes, mac and cheese, and rolls. Afterwards, we showed them how to play the Wii. It was a great time of fellowship!

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

To my hubby


Thank you so much, sweetheart, for watching Cayson today so I could go to my Bible study. Thank you for being a great dad. Thank you for straightening the living room and vacuuming when I didn't even ask you to. You helped me so much today. I love you so much!

Early Morning Musings

Well, now that I've started this post, it's not that early anymore, to most people anyway. But it is to me! Cayson kept us up a lot last night. He has a tooth coming in and it's really hurting him. The last time he got up was about 6:15 this morning. I gave him some teething tablets and he's finally resting comfortably. However, now I'm wide awake. Normally I would have relished holding my sweet, sleeping child, but hunger pains lured me out of bed this morning. Now a couple of slices of cinnamon toast and a glass of milk later, here I am.

My day is kind of busy today, so I'm enjoying the peace and quiet of the early morning. Why don't I do this every morning? Because normally I have a hard time getting up! Anyway, today I am starting a new Bible study! Our women's ministry coordinator at church has started leading a Bible study this week on Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights. Since both of those times were impossible for me (I'm a Sunday school teacher and I help with the students on Wednesdays), she's meeting with me, our children's coordinator, and our pastor's wife during the week for lunch. Normally it will be on Thursdays, but this week it's today. The study is called "Victoriously Frazzled".

Then later today, about 2:45, I'm giving a flute lesson at home. Then sometime today I have to go grocery shopping! We're scraping the bottom of the barrel for diapers!

Well, the sun is up and my husband should be up soon so I'm going to get off here. Thanks for letting me share my morning!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Family Emphasis at First Southern


*Update* I wrote this yesterday, but I didn't have the graphic I wanted with me at home so I waited to publish it until today!

Well, it's October and it's Family Emphasis month at our church, First Southern Baptist Church. This has become an annual event; one that our church members enjoy. Today, we kicked off the month with a Church Family Picnic at the Park. One of our church members--who is an awesome cook--grilled a brisket, some ribs, and some hot dogs for the kids. The Bible study hour classes provided drinks, salads, desserts, and breads.

We met at the park at about 5 and ate first. Then, Shaun and some of the other adults challenged a group of collegians to a game of volleyball. (The collegians weren't there with us.) I think the collegians thought they had it in the bag, but our folks stomped them 3 games to none. As our 20's Bible study teacher put it, "They looked the part, but we played the part! I like it!" We got a chance to invite them to church as well. All in all, tonight was a great success. We had a great turnout, great food, and great fun.

Next Sunday night is Family game night. We're supposed to spend the time with our family and play some sort of game. If anyone has a suggestion for something our family can do to involve Cayson (13 months) please comment. We thought about going to Chuckie Cheese, but it's been so long since we've been, we couldn't remember if there is anything he could do.

The week after that is Meet a Family night. The idea is to invite a family that you don't know very well over for dinner. This was a huge success last year. I think we are going to invite our sound technition and his family, plus a family that has been visiting for a while.

The last Sunday night in October is Date night. Some of our singles are going to have Wild and Crazy games at the church for the kids so that the married couples can go on a date. I'm super excited for this one...last year we were the only married couple who did not have an opportunity to go on a date as we took care of the students. This year the students are going to help with the kids. I don't know why we didn't think of that last year!

On Wednesday, October 31, we are having our Fall Festival. We do Trunk or Treat where people turn their trunks into carnival-type games. We are going to bring our Nintendo Wii (yes we got one!!!) up and let them box or bowl or something. Also, there is a chili cook-off for the adults and everyone dresses up. Cayson is going to be a monkey!

And finally, even though it will be the first Sunday in November, we are going to have a movie night. Outdoors! We're going to show "Facing the Giants". I think this will be an awesome time!

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Cayson looks more like...

Holy Matrimony

On Live with Regis and Kelly this morning, they called a man by the name of Alonzo Sims who was celebrating his 80th wedding anniversary. How amazing!

Friday, September 28, 2007

Kitchen Update

No pics yet, but I thought I'd update everyone on the kitchen floor project. It's been almost a month, but we're making progress. We've ran into several obstacles, or it would have been finished now. The latest obstacle was our fridge. As Shaun was moving it back into place, it a leak in the water line. So Shaun fixed that today and finally got floor laid all the way to the back door. Now all that's left is the carport entry and the laundry room.

In other news...we got a Nintendo Wii! It was a spur of the moment thing. We bought it used (practically brand new) for $160 and 3 extra games for $10 more. So for $170 we got the Wii, an extra controller, and 3 extra games. That's a really good deal! And it's soo much fun! We have an xbox, ps2, and gamecube, but they were mainly for Shaun. We've always been on the lookout for games that we could play together (and I would like), but hadn't succeeded until now. And it's good exercise, too! And I'll just have everyone know, I'm a pro at bowling! I just can't win at anything else. It's so cute, when I play tennis, Cayson likes to swing his baseball bat when I swing the remote. And on bowling, he claps when I get a strike!

Well, that's all I've got for now. Hopefully, the kitchen will be finished soon and I'll have some pics.

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

I Remember




I woke up at about 7:45 that morning in order to be at class by 8:30. I had music technology, one of my favorite classes that semester. This was my first semester in college; I was a music major. We had class as usual, my professor was his usual self. After class, I left for Second Baptist Church, where I was helping babysit for the women's Bible study. We had gotten out of class early, so was on the road by about 9:10. I turned the radio on to my usual station, expecting some music, when I heard a news report. A plane had crashed into one of the World Trade center buildings. I was stunned. A moment later, one of my classmates from Music Tech called me to see if I'd heard the news. I got to the church and my friend, who was helping to babysit, already had the tv on. It was on every channel, it seemed. We sat in stunned silence, trying to make sense of it all. At the time, we didn't know the who or why of it all.

After I left the church, my mom called me to see if I'd heard and to tell me to go and fill up the car. It sounded like a good idea at the time, not knowing what was going on. However, the gas station was PACKED. I was very fortunate to even get gas. Most of the gas stations around town sold out. I think I ended up having to get the premium.

That night there was a candlelight prayer vigil at the Monticello courthouse. I will never forget that night. We were all scared and everyone was praying. Afterwards, the director of the MBSF at UAM, Rob Leonard, spoke to several of the college kids, right on the steps of the Methodist church.

September 11, 2001 is a day I'll always remember.

Monday, September 10, 2007

My little musician!
Taken at our Awana kickoff a couple of Wednesdays ago. His lips are red from a sno cone...not lipstick. LOL.

Friday, September 7, 2007

Pics of Cayson's room








I finally took some pics of Cayson's room. Here's his door.


This is the wall where his crib is. And those are baseball pennets on the wall.
Those cords aren't usually there. They are attached to his camara for the video monitor and the lamp. We hadn't found a home for them yet, when I took this pic. And he needs a toybox, as you can see.
That baseball mitt on the wall was Shaun's growing up. His grandfather made it to hold his baseball, glove, and bat. And Shaun's mom made the curtains and his linens.
That wreath was on my door at the hospital.



And this is his dresser. Notice the crooked plaque! HA. I better fix that! Well, that's pretty much it. Sorry about the yellowish light.

Kitchen Floor Remodel 6 Days and Counting




Before. This is on Sunday afternoon. Notice the linoleum peeling.


Here's our big stack of new floor.

The demolition begins! There are 4 layers of flooring. Yuck!






The actual kitchen floor is completely removed. Shaun went ahead and laid the floor in the kitchen area so I would have access to my kitchen. However, when he got to the fridge, he hit a snag. When he tried to move the fridge back into place, it kept moving the NEW floor with it. So we're waiting for some help in moving the fridge before we can go any farther. That was on Monday. But the kitchen looks good. I haven't taken a picture of it yet...I was waiting for the finished product! I'll keep you updated...

Friday, August 31, 2007

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Cayson's First Birthday




Happy Birthday to my baby boy! I can't believe it...this year has gone by so quickly. Today is his actual birthday, but we had his party Saturday. It was a lot of fun. He didn't want to eat his cake at first. We had to put his hand in it to get him to eat it. It was like he was afraid to get his hands dirty. But after that, he really dug in!



Today, we didn't do much, just hung out around the house and played. Shaun had to work. We did take our boy to get his first haircut, however. You can see the before in his birthday picture. I thought I was done with the emotional stuff after he turned 11 months, but the minute we walked out the door of the salon, I burst into tears. He looks so much like a little boy now. I miss that long, shaggy hair already! But, he does look cute. Especially in the red pumas shoes we bought him today! Here's the after picture.
Our camara has bitten the dust, so you'll have to bear with us for a little while, until we can get a new one. I'm using my cell phone camara for now, or depending on relatives. We are hoping to get his 1 year old pictures taken sometime this week.






Saturday, August 11, 2007

I'm back

Well, it's been a while since my last post. A lot has happened since. First of all, the reason for my brief leave of absence from the blogging world: we moved! We found a house in Barling to move into. It's only about 5 minutes from the church and about 5 minutes from Fort Smith. We were living in a 2 story town house. It was pretty nice, but we had no privacy and Cayson's room was on the 2nd floor. We didn't like that. This house has a nice fenced in backyard and is all one story. And Cayson's room is right next to ours. Anyway, because we moved, it took almost 2 weeks to get our cable installed. And we got the phone, internet, and cable bundle so that meant 2 weeks without internet.

Now, to fill you in on other things that have happened. Cayson now has 4 teeth! And he's walking!!! It's so exciting. He isn't walking all the time yet, but he'll walk back and forth between me and Shaun. And he's learning so much! He can say ball and he knows what it is. I think he said "thank you" today. I've been working with him on it. He's really eating a lot of table food now too. Still nursing, though. I'm dreading the end of that. It's such a wonderful bond between us. I'm just thankful he isn't biting me with those new teeth!

My parents are visiting us this week. Today we took them to Mt. Magazine. It was so pretty, but very hot! I think we're going to Branson on Monday. And my brother moves into his dorm at OBU next Saturday. I think we're going to try and go help. And Cayson's birthday party is the next Saturday after that! Yep, my baby is turning 1 in less than a month. Where did the time go???

Sunday, July 22, 2007

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We're Moving!

Again! But, this time, we're not moving to another church (my husband is in the ministry, if you don't know), just to another house. We found a house in Barling, which is closer to Fort Smith. We're still going to be renting, but it's a one story house with a back yard. Right now, we live in a 2 story town house with no yard. And no privacy. We are super excited...except we have to move this weekend and we have VBS all week! And we haven't packed up one thing! So pray for us this week as we have VBS and move! Once we get settled, I may post some pics.

Saturday, July 14, 2007

Our group picture at camp. See my little camper?
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Cayson update

Oh my gosh, I have some big news about Cayson! Well, it's big to us, anyway. It happened while were at camp, but I didn't want to just lump it in with the camp stuff, so I said I'd make a separate post about it. And I forgot! I have no idea how, but anyways...Cayson has cut his first 2 teeth! This is big, since he's been teething since he was 2 months old. On Thursday night of camp, I had him outside during worship time (he was being loud during the improv stuff). We were sitting up against the building and he was chewing on my chin. He does this all the time, except this time it was sharp! I looked and sure enough, there was a tooth! Then Friday night, he was up several times with his teeth hurting. Saturday morning I checked on his new tooth to see if it had come in any more and there was another one, just barely peeking out!

Monday, July 9, 2007

Authentic Faith Days 3-5

Day 3 (Thursday)
Thursday started out pretty much the same, breakfast, quiet time, small group, and worship. During this morning's worship Dr. Himaya talked about prayer. He gave the kids the ACTS model to help them. (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication)

Lunch was grilled chicken sandwiches. It was pretty good. Cayson loved the chicken. At Rec time, we really went all out with our color. We painted faces, arms, legs, hair, and Shaun even painted his goatee! Plus we had all of our pink shirts on. The games we played were the human pretzel (everyone huddles together and grabs someone's hand. Then they have to untwist everyone without letting go), a bubble gum relay, and ultimate frisbee. Our teens didn't do as well with this. They'd never done a human pretzel before and struggled a little with it. Turns out, somehow we ended up with 2 circles! I was very proud of them, though, they never gave up.

During free time, there was a 3 on 3 basketball tournament. Our guys entered it and made it to the semi-finals. Apparently they did really well. They were beaten by Isaac Improv, the camp comedy guys, who went on to play Pottersfield, the band, in the finals.

Dinner was tacos, which were pretty good.

I didn't get to stay in worship time because Cayson was getting pretty tired. But I do know that Dr. Himaya preached on Rahab, the prostitute that helped the Israeli spies. He had the sermon on CD so we bought it and I listened to it on the way home. The gist was that God can save anyone, regardless of their past, and that He uses unlikely people to do His work. Rahab ended up being Jesus' great-great-great-great-great-etc. Grandmother. And one of our girls, Logan, got saved! The change in her and the 2 guys, who were twin brothers, is amazing!

Day 4 (Friday)
Same thing, breakfast, quiet time, small group, worship. Dr. Himaya gave the students a detailed definition of a quiet time, which is a period of time you consistantly set aside to be alone with God, usually in the morning, to talk with Him, and to listen to Him as you prepare to be used by Him that day. He also gave them a plan:
1. Begin with prayer.
2. Read the Bible.
3. Write down your insightw, application, and final prayer.
4. Be realistic.


Lunch was BBQ brisket sandwiches! Very good! LOL.
During rec we played Kickball, Knock 'em, and Nuke 'em. Kickball was standard, except each time your team came in to kick, the rules for kicking, running, etc, changed a little. First time was normal. 2nd time, kick backwards. 3rd time run backwards. 4th time you had to skip to base. We won! Knock 'em used 2 exercise balls and a hug basketball goal. Basically everyone lined up. The 1st person shot the ball. If they missed, they had to get it in the basket before the person behind them could. If the person behind them beat them, they were out. And Nuke 'em was dodgeball, except on a volleyball court.
During free time our kids (and Shaun) played in an ultimate frisbee tournament. We won the first game, but lost the 2nd. Mainly because we had to play 2 games back-to-back and the other team hadn't played yet.
During worship, one of the staffers kept Cayson for me. It was such an awesome message. Probably the most relevant and applicable "camp message" I've ever heard. The text was Matthew 4:1-11 where Jesus was tempted in the wilderness. The gist was we often use prayer as a fix-all, when sometimes we need to go straight to the Word. Dr. Himaya challenged us to find some "It is writtens" in the Bible for us to use when we are tempted. He called it fighting the battle before you run the race.
During the invitation, Dr. Himaya challenged the guys that are willing to stand up and be warriors in their student ministry to come forward. He had them pray in a concert of prayer, committing themselves to it. Then he had the girls pray over the guys. What an amazing picture this was! Then he had the girls admit that they were beautiful, since that is an area that the devil loves to attack. And he had the guys pray over them. It was so amazing and awesome.


Day 5 (Saturday)
Today we loaded up the vans and went down to the lake to watch the kids being baptized. Shaun got to baptize Logan. The twins wanted to wait until Sunday to be baptized, so their mom could be there. It was so awesome seeing teen after teen publically admit they'd committed their life to Christ.
After the baptisms, we went home. Plus, we had a wedding to get to! Our children's coordinator/ministry assistant at the church was getting married!
This camp was life-changing for so many of our kids. The change is awesome. I just pray it lasts. I know how mountaintop camp experiences are. But Shaun and I are starting One on One with God with several of the kids and I had already started a girls Bible study.

Pray for us as we continue to get in our kids' lives and encourage them in their walk with God!

Sunday, July 8, 2007

Authentic Faith 2007


Day 1
We arrived at Camp Walk on Water (WOW) at about 2 pm on Tuesday. To the kids' surprise, we were attacked by a group of college kids dressed as twinkies, hula girls or guys, and just general craziness. We found our dorm and unpacked. By the way, this was the type of dorm where all 50something bunk beds are in 1 room. And there's about 5 showers and toilets. We shared a dorm with Fianna Hills Baptist Church and First Baptist in Van Buren. I started out in the dorms with the girls, so that meant Cayson was in there too! He loved being in there with all those girls!

The kids had to take a swim test and then it was off to dinner. It was actually pretty good. Lasagna! After that we had small group time, and then worship. Our worship band was Pottersfield, we had an improv comedy group named Isaac Improv, and our speaker was Dr. Alex Himaya from The Church at Battle Creek in Tulsa. Tuesday night Dr Himaya gave his testimony, which is awesome. I didn't get to stay at worship because Cayson was getting pretty loud. I had him asleep in the dorm, but when all the girls came in, he woke up. I spent Tuesday night worrying that he would wake up crying and wake up the girls.

Day 2
One of the youth ministers figured out a way for me to stay in the lodge with Cayson...which is more like a hotel room. Needless to say, I was much more comfortable the rest of the week!

Breakfast was decent. I ended up just eating cereal, which I learned later was off-brand. However, I decided I liked the off-brand Frosted Flakes better than Kellogg's!

Next, we were off to the worship center to watch a NOOMA video, created by Rob Bell, pastor of Mars Hill Bible Church. This video was to help them with their quiet time. In their camp books, there were questions about the video and after they watched the video they spread out all over camp to do their quiet time.

During morning worship time, Dr. Himaya taught them how to do a quiet time. This particular morning, he told them how he does his quiet time. He uses a system called ENSPEC. Which means:


  • Example for me to follow.

  • New thought about God, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit.

  • Sin for me to confess.

  • Promise for me to claim.

  • Error for me to avoid.

  • Command for me to obey.

Lunch was hot dogs. Cayson ate a whole one, without the bread!


At 1:30 was Rec. Each church was given a color. We were the pink team. We were competing against the other churches in the areas of team spirit, encouragement, and servanthood. Our rec games for the day were dodgeball, broom ball (like hockey, but with a kickball and brooms), and flicker ball (like ultimate frisbee, but with a football and in the endzone there was a target with a hole in it that you had to put the football through.) We swept all our games for the day!


Free time was 3-6 pm. During free time, campers could swim in the lake, which had some amazing "toys", or climb the rock wall, do the zip line, etc. Check out the website to see all the neat stuff.


Dinner was fried chicken, I believe. Cayson ate all Shaun's green beans.


We had small group time before worship. Each church divided their kids into groups of ten for this (and rec as well). For us, we brough 12 so we were a small group anyway. During this time, Shaun talked to the kids out of Jeremiah.


In worship, Dr. Himaya preached on the cross. For several years, he's been studying medical books, history, etc to found out the medical side of Jesus' death. This was such an awesome message. It is really a blog post in itself. This is the night we had 2 of our kids come to know Christ.


After worship we had church time to talk about the message, etc. Then we had fireworks over the lake. (This was on July 4.)


Ok, I realize this has gotten to be a long post so I'll break them up. Stay tuned for accounts of day 3, 4, and 5!

I'm Home!

Yay! Home from camp at last! Thank you so much for your prayers this week...they were felt. I'm too tired to talk about it too much, but I'm going to try and put together a day-by-day summary of everything we did. However I will tell you some awesome news...

...3 of our kids accepted Christ this week! Shaun also performed his very first baptism. We baptized one of the kids in the lake at camp and the other two were baptized today by Shaun as well.

This was such an awesome week! Praise God for everything he did in the lives of the kids of the River Valley!

Monday, July 2, 2007

Gone for a few days

Well, I'm leaving for student camp tomorrow, so I will more than likely be absent from the blogging world for a few days. We'll be back on Saturday. Please pray for our kids this week. This promises to be an awesome time with our teenagers. Most of them have never gone to camp before, so this will be a completely new experience. Well, I must get back to packing. Be looking forward to some crazy pictures when we get back!